Crying is one way babies respond to overstimulation. In my experience babies have very few filters for what we consider every day noise, light and interaction with the world. Some babies simply go to sleep to escape, others nurse and nurse and still others scream and cry.
Interestingly it is mothers who crave a lot of stimulation in their lives that have very sensitive babies. Babies are very powerful people, without the ability to speak they are extremely clear about their optimal environment. Since this translates as a calm baby that is willing to sleep, most parents are willing to adapt. Just like that your whole life changes.
The process of homeopathic case taking will assist you in understanding the cues of your child and the environment that is best for their well-being. Feeling relaxed is actually part of survival for babies as they are able to eat, digest and sleep at a higher level than if they are stressed.
Homeopathic remedies will help ease the sensitivity and reactivity of your baby, helping them to calm faster and seek comfort instead of escalating their response.
Situations that promote overstimulation include;
- having company in your home that wants to hold your baby
- trips to the grocery store, mall or errands in the car
- attending events – weddings, parties, sporting events etc.
- naps timed to occur in the car
- bringing the baby to appointments and errands
I know that it seems like you won’t be able to do anything when you have a newborn and you are right. Babies do not want to attend classes or go shopping. They want a quiet, calm environment, soft light and a slow pace. In this setting they will thrive. You can push through and sometimes it just happens, but those are the times that your baby will fuss, cry, be unable to settle and require a lot of extra grounding – this is what overtimulation looks like.
Mothers can schedule their own time for appointments, shopping, social time when their partners are home or a friend is available to be with the baby in their home. As time goes on babies will become more flexible and able to tolerate outings and adventures.
If you do want to go out with your baby I suggest:
- the forest, walks away from cars and noise
- small quiet groups where you feel calm and peaceful
- meeting one friend at a time for a visit
- the library
Keep it simple at the pace of a baby. Use a sling to provide a buffer for your newborn.
It is highly possible that in this way of living you will also feel calm and rested, peaceful and present. Try it.
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